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Parents of teens (12–18) · 7 min read

What's normal, what's not

A parent's red-flag checklist for teen periods.

This is general information for parents and carers, not medical advice. If you're worried about symptoms, contact your GP or NHS 111.

The first two years are often irregular

Cycles can be anywhere from 21 to 45 days in the first couple of years while hormones settle. Skipping a month occasionally is common and usually fine.

By 3 years post-menarche, cycles should be more regular — 21 to 35 days apart, with bleeding lasting up to 7 days.

Usually normal

• Cramps on day 1–2 that ease with a hot water bottle and ibuprofen.

• A few clots smaller than a 10p coin.

• Mood dips or tearfulness in the week before her period.

• Tiredness or lower appetite on heavy days.

Speak to a GP — soon

• Bleeding through a super pad or tampon in under 2 hours, repeatedly.

• Periods lasting longer than 7 days.

• Missing school every month because of pain.

• Pain that ibuprofen and a hot water bottle don't touch.

• No period by age 15, or no signs of puberty by age 13.

• Bleeding between periods, or after sex once she's sexually active.

Same day — NHS 111 or A&E

• Sudden very heavy bleeding with dizziness, fainting, or a racing heart.

• Severe one-sided pelvic pain.

• A high temperature with tampon use.