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Parents of teens (12–18) · 6 min read

Pain relief at home

What actually helps cramps — and where the "just period pain" excuse ends.

This is general information for parents and carers, not medical advice. If you're worried about symptoms, contact your GP or NHS 111.

The order to try things in

Heat first, movement second, medication third. Not because meds are bad — because a hot water bottle plus a short walk plus ibuprofen taken at the first twinge works better than any single one alone.

Ibuprofen works best if she takes it at the first sign of cramps, with food — not once the pain is already at a 7. Follow the dose on the packet for her age and weight. If in doubt, ask a pharmacist — free advice, no appointment needed.

What tends to help

• A hot water bottle or heat patch on the lower tummy or lower back.

• Ibuprofen with food, taken early. Paracetamol can be added if ibuprofen alone isn't enough (spaced correctly — pharmacist can confirm).

• Gentle movement — even a slow walk. Curling up in bed all day often makes it worse.

• Warm bath, warm drinks, an early night.

• A TENS machine (a small pad-based device) — over-the-counter, sometimes helpful for older teens.

Where "just period pain" ends

If pain regularly stops her doing normal things — school, sport, socialising — that's not "just period pain". That's a GP conversation.

If ibuprofen and heat don't touch it, if she's waking at night in pain, or if she's curled up unable to move — same thing. Book the GP, use the Appointment Builder, and don't accept "try paracetamol and come back".

NHS-aligned pain relief basics (always check the packet)

Dosing depends on age and weight — read the packet. A pharmacist can advise for free, in person, no appointment.

Option
Ibuprofen (200–400mg)
When to start
At the first twinge, with food
Watch out for
Not on an empty stomach; not if she has asthma triggered by NSAIDs
Option
Paracetamol (500mg)
When to start
Alongside or between ibuprofen doses
Watch out for
Stick to the packet dose; don't double up brands
Option
Heat (bottle / patch)
When to start
As soon as cramps start
Watch out for
Not on bare skin — always a cover
Option
Gentle movement
When to start
Any time
Watch out for